American Journal of Hospice and Palliative Medicine®, Ahead of Print.
Serious illness is rarely experienced by patients in isolation. Many patients present to palliative care (PC) accompanied by their intimate partner. The intimate partnership is a critical axis around which many patients’ experiences of serious illness revolve. However, there is a lack of literature and training on how PC clinicians can effectively support couples as a unit. Many existing PC communication strategies can be expanded to the dyadic unit, offering more holistic support for patients, partners, and the entity of their relationship. This paper integrates concepts from couples therapy, psychology, and PC communication to provide insights into the emotional, psychological, interpersonal, and practical challenges couples face during serious illness, as well as opportunities for growth and resilience. Key strategies for PC clinicians include helping couples navigate shifts in relational identity, share the “emotional housework,” and transform conflict into connection. Concrete techniques are illustrated throughout this manuscript, employing clinical micro-vignettes to demonstrate their practical application in PC practice. Recognizing the couple as a unified entity empowers clinicians to foster open communication, helping couples maintain connection and evolve intimacy throughout the illness journey. By applying relational concepts and acknowledging the couple’s shared experience, PC clinicians can enhance the quality of life for both patients and their partners. Conceptualizing the couple as a distinct entity within PC practice can deepen clinician-patient communication and improve therapeutic effectiveness.