We use ‘Javanese philosophical ethics’ to refer to widely noted patterns in ethical thought that emphasize harmony, duty, and acceptance as foundations for living. In traditional Javanese thought, nrima (from nrimo or trima) means a wholehearted, grateful acceptance of life’s events, even misfortune. More than passive resignation, nrima involves active reflection and resilience. It will result in resilience, perseverance and adaptability in facing adversity.
Another core value is tata krama, the intricate code of manners and courtesy. Javanese etiquette governs social interactions to preserve respect and harmony. For example, Mataraman Javanese manners (stemming from the historic Mataram court) prescribe polite speech, appropriate seating (never higher than one’s elders) and modest greetings.