“Straight-Acting Gays”: The Relationship Between Masculine Consciousness, Anti-Effeminacy, and Negative Gay Identity

Some gay men are preoccupied with traditional notions of masculinity and express negative feelings towards effeminate behavior
in gay men. Various scholars have speculated that such attitudes by gay men reflect internalized negative feelings about being
gay. Thus, we sought to assess the importance of masculinity among gay men, to compare their ideal versus perceived masculinity–femininity,
to ask how gay men assess masculinity, and to test whether masculine consciousness and anti-effeminacy could predict negative
feelings about being gay. Results from an online survey of 751 gay men in the United States (M
_Age = 32.64 years, SD = 11.94) showed that the majority rated masculinity for themselves and in a same-sex partner as important, and they ideally
wished that their behavior was more masculine (Cohen’s d = .42) and less feminine (d = .42) than they perceived it to be. Furthermore, one’s behavior was more important than how one looks when assessing masculinity.
A multiple regression analysis showed that the degree to which they were preoccupied with masculinity and expressed anti-effeminacy
accounted for 30% of the variance in negative feelings about being gay. These finding further support the idea that masculinity
is an important construct for gay men and that masculine consciousness and anti-effeminacy are related to negative feelings
about being gay.