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Like many women raised in traditional cultures and religious contexts, I was taught that a “good” woman holds the family together. In my culture, women were often glorified for quietly accepting hardship. As a highly educated, financially independent and well-informed professional, admitting I had lived in an abusive relationship for a long time felt shameful and felt like a personal defeat. Seeking help felt like exposing weakness and vulnerability.