Drawing on 40 in-depth interviews with transgender and nonbinary people, we found that respondents’ gender identities or displays shifted day-by-day and audience-by-audience. The first describes respondents shifting their identities and displays based on feeling their way through gender while the latter describes feeling out an audience. These shifts are nonexclusive to trans and nonbinary people. Instead, we offer new tools for symbolic interactionists by theorizing the impermanence of identity as a generic social process. Examining such impermanence reveals how people feel their way through facets of the self and audiences to quell the possibility of experiencing social inequalities in interaction.