ABSTRACT
We introduce a triadic caregiving model—matched care, misguided care, and withdrawn care—to complement the parental acceptance and rejection conceptualization. While the binary conceptualization captures the behavioral responses and mental health impacts of parental reactions to LGB children, parents’ motivations and narratives are often overlooked. Gaining insight into these motivations can enhance engagement strategies and identify opportunities for strengthening and rebuilding parent–child relationships. Grounded in attachment theory and emotionally focused family therapy, the proposed triadic model directs attention toward the caregiving intentions behind parental behaviors and their alignment with the child’s attachment needs: (a) Matched care describes attuned and affirming behaviors; (b) misguided care captures over-involved or controlling actions based on misinformation; and (c) withdrawn care reflects emotionally distant responses stemming from personal distress or self-protection. By reframing parental responses as caregiving strategies, whether effective or misaligned, this model offers a compassionate and actionable lens for understanding parent–child dynamics. It has practical implications for clinical work and research by supporting more individualized, systemic, and reparative interventions that promote family reconciliation and stronger relational bonds following an LGB child’s coming out.