Connection and reunion is central to adoption, though complicated by geographical, cultural and linguistic differences in the intercountry adoption space. Drawing from narrative interviews, this study investigated perspectives on connection from the perspectives of adult adopted persons and adoptive parents in Australia, from families of origin in Taiwan and from professionals in both countries. Two primary themes characterising perspectives were found: openness to the possibilities of connection was the predominant theme among adoptees and adoptive parents, and concerns about disrupting the status quo was most common among birth mothers. These two perspectives are both distinct and at times simultaneously held. While connection in adoption is inherently personal and relational, due to the complex, sensitive and evolving nature of connections in adoption, developing and negotiating connections relies strongly on statutory and institutional policies and practices. The article concludes by discussing implications for policies and practices related to openness in intercountry adoption.
Key practitioner message: • The study identified how connection is narrated and openness practiced by adoptees, birth parents, adoptive parents and professionals in Taiwan–Australia adoptions; • Adoption practice should take account of different narratives of connection and life changes that may impact upon openness and interest in reunion; • The study underscores how statutory and institutional policies and practices affect the narration of connection beyond the personal and relational.